The Benefits of Upside Down Christmas Tree Decorating
When it comes to christmas tree decorating the latest fad is the upside-down christmas tree. Is there any good reason besides the fact that it is a really hot xmas trend that you should actually buy one of these? First of all it may help a bit to look a bit at the history of the upside down xmas tree. That might help you decide if this type of christmas tree is for you.
The upside-down christmas tree comes from the pagan tradition of spreading evergreen boughs across the floors, windows and hearth in order to keep evil spirits from invading the home. This tradition was celebrated by cultures as diverse as the Celts, the Romans and the Vikings long before the time of Christ.
You have to remember that Christianity did not really take off in central Europe until twelve centuries past the birth of Christ. As it was noted that the evergreen contained the three points of the Holy Trinity, it was brought indoors and hung upside down. This was a way of playing it safe for most central Europeans who liked to mix their pagan rituals with their Christian rituals. Not only did the upside down xmas tree offer protection from evil spirits, but it also acknowledged the Father, the Son and the Holy Ghost. All of this was put to an end when religious zealots in the 16th century Germany proclaimed that the upside down xmas tree was sacrilegious. Religious officials ordered that the tips of christmas trees stop pointing to hell and instead be turned right side up so they pointed to heaven.
Since the 16th century we hadn’t heard a heck of a lot about upside-down christmas tree decorating until they were marketed as store display units to retailers a couple of years ago. The reason for their revival had to do with common sense. The upside-down christmas tree that is bolted to the ceiling simply left more space for retail displays and more room to display christmas tree decorations. It also offered less of a chance of a liability lawsuit should a stumbling shopper trip over it. It wasn’t long before the general public started demanding the upside-down christmas tree as a novelty item.
This past christmas the prestigious Hammacher Schlemmer holiday supply company (which has been in business over 150 years) could not keep their seven-foot tall pre-lit upside-down christmas tree in stock. It costs $600 U.S. with a lifetime guarantee. This should give you an idea of how popular this latest trend in christmas tree decorating has become.
This might be because there are definitely some benefits to using and upside down tree when it comes to christmas tree decorating. For one thing it keeps your precious glass ornaments away from the prying fingers of children. It also keeps pets and toddlers from accidentally tipping the tree over. Another benefit is that it also allows you to pile more presents under the tree (of course keeping in mind that “under the tree” is now “under” the top of the tip of the tree and its decorative topper.)
Another benefit is that the upside-down christmas tree is quite practical. They are bolted to the ceiling, which means they take up no floor space, so it’s great for smaller apartments and smaller rooms. It can be positioned in tight corners and other places that do not accommodate a tree with traditional Christmas decorations.
The upside-down christmas tree can also be hung in places where you could not consider having a tree before. In fact many people simply hang the tree over their dining room table the same way you would a chandelier. Also it is much easier to see the christmas tree decorations and ornaments on an upside-down Christmas tree because they dangle down from the branches and do not visually disappear into the tree foliage. Many of them come prelit, which gets rid of the necessity of wrapping the tree in lights.
So just how are these upside-down christmas trees attached to the ceiling? They are bolted to a base that is screwed into the ceiling. If you are just into this for the novelty of it and the idea of a whole christmas tree and dangling christmas tree decorations dangling over your head makes you nervous then you can also buy models that have a base on the floor that supports an upside down artificial tree.
As upside down christmas trees are a very new thing, there is some debate as to which types of christmas tree decorations look best on it. For instance some people like the look of clumps of tinsel hanging like clumps of hair downwards from the ceiling whereas others find the effect to be too cluttered or messy looking. In you are of the latter opinion then you might want to stick with trailing cotton batten which is more like spider webs and does not fall as easily off the tree.
As you don’t want any ornaments falling down and smashing on the floor or God forbid, on somebody’s head you need to take extra care about fastening your christmas tree decorations securely to the tree. This is also true of christmas garlands, lights and the christmas tree topper. Remember to also fasten everything securely to the tree with some kind of wire as well as the usual fishline!
A drawback to buying an upside-down christmas tree is that after you remove it, you might have a bit of a plastering job to attend to thanks to the nuts and bolts that hold the base secure. This is why many people opt to hang it where a light fixture is usually hung. Then after the holiday season is over, they simply replace the light fixture to hide any marks left from the bolting of the tree to the ceiling.
Another consideration is that it is difficult to predecorate these upside-down christmas trees. Many of them need to be hung quite high to avoid them from scraping the tops of people’s heads. This means getting up on a ladder or a table to attach christmas tree decorations to the tree so this is definitely not the kind of tree that is best for an elderly individual or someone who is afraid of heights.
However the upside-down christmas tree is ideal for the individual who already has everything (think Paris Hiliton!) or who enjoys being different and the center of attention.
Christmas Top 10 “I Did Not Know” Facts
Christmas time is here again and we want to grab your attention to this article on Christmas.
It not only is interesting, but also has tons about the true meaning of Christmas.
The true meaning of Christmas is sometimes crowded out by the frenzy of buying and gift giving.
Our top 10 facts about Christmas are sure to help you get a better understanding of Christmas.
We mean to let everyone know more about Christmas after reading this!
1. Jesus Christ
First and foremost, the birth of Jesus Christ is true meaning of Christmas
Christmas was first celebrated as a proper day, on the 25th December, in the 5th century,
in the time of the Roman Emperor Constantine.
2. Christmas Carols
The custom of carolling through the streets originated in England when rich businessmen hired
singers to accompany their strolls. The tradition quickly extended to all types of choruses.
“We Wish You a Merry Christmas” was definitely on everyone’s list.
3. Christmas Cards
In 1843, the first Christmas card was printed in England for Sir Henry Cole.
He was busy man who wanted to save time in his own Christmas letters,
4. Christmas Tree
In the 16th century Martin Luther, a German preacher, was the first to bring a Christmas tree into a house.
A story is told that, one night before Christmas, he was walking through the forest and looked up
to see the stars shining through the tree branches. It was so beautiful, that he went home and told his children
that it reminded him of Jesus, who left the stars of heaven to come to earth at Christmas.
5. Christmas Gifts
One of the main reasons we have the custom of giving and receiving presents at Christmas,
is to remind us of the presents given to Jesus by the three Wise Men: Frankincense, Gold and Myrrh.
Frankincense was a perfume used in Jewish worship and, as a gift, it showed that people would worship Jesus.
Gold was associated with Kings and Christians believe that Jesus is the King of Kings.
Myrrh was a perfume that was put on dead bodies to make them smell nice and, as a gift,
it showed that Jesus would suffer and die.
6. Santa Claus
Does Santa exist?
In the 16th Century in Europe, the stories and traditions about St. Nicholas became very unpopular.
But someone had to deliver presents to children at Christmas, so in the U.K., he became ‘Father Christmas’,
a character from old childrens stories; in France, he was then known as ‘Pre Nel’; in Germany,
the Christ Child or ‘Christ Kind. In the early U.S.A. his name was ‘Kris Kringle’.
Later, Dutch settlers in the USA took the old stories of St. Nicholas with them and Kris Kringle became
‘Sinter Klass’ or as we now say ‘Santa Claus’!
7. Mistletoe
Mistletoe is a plant that grows on willow and apple trees (and in garden centres!).
The practice of hanging it in the house goes back to the times of the ancient Druids.
It is supposed to possess mystical powers which bring good luck to the household and ward off evil spirits.
It was also used as a sign of friendship and that’s where the custom of kissing under Mistletoe comes from!
8. Xmas
Xmas can also mean Christmas!
The name ‘Christmas’ comes from the Mass of Christ (or Jesus).
A Mass service is where Christians remember that Jesus died for us and then came back to life.
The ‘Christ-Mass’ service was the only one that was allowed to take place after sunset,
So we get the name Christ-Mass, shortened to Christmas.
Christmas is also sometimes called Xmas. Some people don’t think it’s correct to call Christmas ‘Xmas’
as that takes the ‘Christ’ (Jesus) out of Christmas. But that is not quite right! In the Greek language
and alphabet, the letter that looks like an X is pronounced ‘Christos’ and means ‘Christ’!
9. Christmas Stamps
In 1937, the first postage stamp to commemorate Christmas was issued in Austria.
10. ‘The Lamb of God’
Two thousand years ago the King of Kings was born.
‘The Lamb of God’ later made to feel the thorn,
If his words are accepted and not scorned,
They will make us all reborn.
We hope that what we have stated here on Christmas is indeed inspiring to you, the reader.
Have a very Merry Christmas
Christmas Crafts
Children simply tread on air when it’s their most favorite Christmas holidays around the corner ! Now Christmas crafts are some of those special things which make the holiday even more fun for them. They enjoy making wonderfully warm crafts for their big bros, little sis, dear parents or cool buddies. Christmas is surely the merriest time of the year for the little kiddos, especially because Santa Claus comes to visit them with lots of Christmas gifts and toys. And they just can’t afford to miss out on all the fun. Some schools arrange for a breakfast with Santa and these tiny tots simply love playing and singing about this jolly ol’ man in unabashed glee. It’s quite fetching ideas for the teachers to make the students deck up their schools for the holidays and get on with some Christmas crafts. It is sheer fun and they would surely enjoy these Christmas crafts.
During the Christmas holidays, students are often kept engaged in interesting Christmas crafts or gifted a day-out with Mr. Santa and Mrs. Claus. It’s also quite common to arrange for a Christmas shopping for the kids, where they can buy little tokens or inexpensive Christmas gifts for their mom, dad, gramps, bro, sis or friends. That gives them a real grown-up feeling and you’d love to see those little creatures rejoice in the Christmas shopping spree. Magic shows and talent hunts are also held during Christmas to keep the kids on the high end of thrill. Children even go out caroling in groups from door to door on Christmas. So much for the activities of children during Christmas; now if you want some Christmas craft ideas for the children, here are some:
The easiest Christmas craft by all odds is the Christmas card. No one will ever get bored with making their own hand-made cards. Ideas can be many and easy-to-craft too. So why not ask them start off with some Christmas cards ? May be just a collage of red, green and white papers would look mind-blowing or a Christmas tree studded with glitters at the corners more fascinating than a real one !
Another groovy Christmas craft idea is the Santa hat. You’ll just need red cloth, some fluffy cotton and glue to get this Christmas craft real ! Fold the red cloth into a conical shape and stick the edges. Then have a ball of cotton glued at the top and some to border the circular base.
Christmas wreaths are always great ideas for Christmas crafts. Best visual for this would be a wreath made of the special Poinsettias of the season. Red and white poinsettias would just swell at the doorway, won’t they ? You can even have the wreath punctuated with green leaves.
Christmas ornaments are good craft ideas too. You can ask the kids to make small gingerbread men from hard brown-colored paper or give them plastic candy canes to be spiraled in red and blue satin ribbons. Or they can also make glittering Christmas stars by cutting out papers in star shapes and sticking silver and golden glitters on them.
Christmas craft ideas are many. Why not let your kids craft out a cute angel this year ? Let them draw an angel on construction paper, help them stick light pink or light blue fabric for the dress, color the hands and eyes and then cut it out finally to fix it at the doorway to welcome your guests on Christmas. They would surely appreciate this cherubic welcome !
Now with a little older kids, crafting out a big snowman or a roly-poly Santa are peachy Christmas craft ideas for sure. To start, you can ask them stuff two big sacks for the snowman body and cover them with loads of cotton. A carrot for the nose and cranberries for the eyes and your snowman for Christmas would be all done and dusted to amuse your folks.
Another idea for Christmas crafts is the Christmas sign board. You may ask the children to either draw or color whacky messages for Christmas, that are to be put up on the door or on the walls of your Christmas party hall. So let their ideas soar this Christmas and inspire the little ones to create fascinating Christmas crafts!
Christmas Party Ideas
What’s a better time to sing, dance and party if not on Christmas ? So be it. Celebrate this Christmas as best as you can, in whatever ways you want to, with as much fun and friends and make it a celebration to remember forever ! Now, there aren’t any clear-cut ways for Christmas celebration. Everything’s appreciated as long as it’s in the spirit of the season. Christmas parties are, therefore, quite common.
But not everyone likes a blowout Christmas party or a boisterous Christmas celebration. Some even like to engage in a low-key Christmas celebrations. If you’re in this group, you can spend the day religiously-praying for your near and dears, spending a warm time in close quarters, flipping through family albums and cherishing fond memories of bygone years. You can also have a Christmas celebration with some noble acts of charity, giving donations or buying Christmas gifts to the unprivileged. This is sure to bring you closer to the true essence of Christmas-giving and sharing of what you have ! So enrich your holidays and that of others with warm smiles, hugs, gifts and wishes.
Just in case you want to go a little wild on Christmas and have a peach of Christmas celebrations, the idea of a Christmas party is always a winning idea ! Be it an open-house party or a corporate one or if it’s just a casual sit-down dinner-plan days ahead of Christmas. For, there are many things to keep in mind while planning your Christmas party. To start off, you can set the tone for your Christmas party with the invitations itself. Whatever your Christmas celebrations, the invitations got to be fetching enough to have your folks dropping in for a blast ! Make them as innovative as possible to get your guests in the Christmas groove. Then you got to choose a place for the Christmas blowout or the holiday party before deciding on your menu. Party areas are usually hired for company Christmas parties. And if it’s a more informal joint, you can fix up the Christmas party even at your own place. Now, you can either have your party catered and or you can plan it yourself with the help of close pals or family members. You can arrange for a DJ to sweep your guests off their feet at your Christmas party celebrations. Note this, your Christmas party mustn’t always include elaborate meals and extravagant affairs; you can even host a Christmas party with just drinks and hors o’deurves with soft Christmas music playing in the air. And this is no less entertaining and definitely not a absurd Christmas celebration ! So get set to bake your cookies, brownies, prepare the Jingle Bell Fudge and keep the wassail handy for your guests to pamper their taste buds on Christmas.
Now for the decorations of your Christmas party-make it as chic as possible. Give the party room a total face-lift with colorful candles brightly lit everywhere, adorn the Christmas tree with bells and candy canes, fringe the walls with tinsel and little stockings, and scatter balloons around to make it look even more festive. Another stunning Christmas party idea is to crown your guests with Christmas party Santa hats as soon as they arrive. This can sure pep up the Christmas celebrations a tad bit and bring your guests into the holiday spirits right away. And, of course, you must choose a theme for your Christmas party and decide the activities accordingly. You can perk up the party ambience with fun games, dance and sometimes people even give away Christmas awards during a Christmas party. So just get started and have an out-of-the-world Christmas celebration this year !
Christmas Gifts
It’s almost a custom these days to wish Merry Christmas’ with Christmas gifts. The current tradition of giving gifts on Christmas came into popular practice following the Three Wise Men’s (Magi) gifts to baby Jesus. Gift-giving during Christmas is primal to the age-old tradition of Christmas, and this took larger proportions slowly through the years with the rise of consumerism. Now if you come to think of it, today’s Christmas is really impaired without those big boxes in colorful wrappers tied up with glistening ribbons and piled up at the foot of the Christmas evergreen, those red stockings chock-a-block with Santa’s givings, those warm cards displayed on the mantle and many more sweet Christmas surprises. Evidently Christmas gifts have become integral to our Christmas holidays ! Every Christian bears the spirit of giving and sharing on Christmas. So what are you planning to gift your dear ones this Christmas ? Here are some Christmas gift ideas for you to check out:
Christmas gifts can be anything from some pretty flowers to a chic jewelry. So then, you can never fall short of ideas when it comes to Christmas gifts. Flowers are wonderful gifts for all occasions. And they can brighten up days on Christmas too !
Christmas gift baskets are wonderful ideas for Christmas presents as well. You can make one yourself or buy one for your friends, siblings or sweetheart anytime. A gift basket stuffed with cookies, chocolates and other little surprises would surely make the difference to your loved ones’ days !
Gift certificates for Christmas won’t be bad ideas either. So send all your wishes and good cheer in a piece of envelope and fly them to your dear ones on Christmas.
Christmas decorations can be good Christmas gifts too. A box of Christmas ornaments would instantly set the sparkles in the hearts of the receivers on the holidays.
How about some stunning necklace, pendant or earrings for the women folk this Christmas ? For all their proverbial craving for “all that shines”, they would simply slobber over these well-chosen Christmas gifts of yours !
Wines and cigars as Christmas gifts are bound to strike the right chord for the men folk. These would sweep them off their feet and you can’t help spot that glint in their eyes once they get the sleek wine bottle or the splendid cigar-case as Christmas presents.
Candle-stands, photo-frames, doormats, wall hangings, nice paintings, flower vases, garden accents, personalized plaques-all these could just be your choice for this Christmas season. What’s unique with these is that these are good gift ideas for your boss, colleagues, teacher, Reverend, neighbors and other acquaintances too. Home decors always make cool Christmas gifts.
DVDs, music CDs, music accessories, audio books and musical instruments would be perfect Christmas gifts for your music lover buddies. So why not drop them these surprise gifts this holiday ?
Sports goods for sports nuts, electronic gadgets for the gizmo buffs, or may be some fitness equipment for the health freaks-choose your Christmas gifts wisely and well in advance to avoid the rush of the Christmas shopping season.
Cool Christmas toys-mini Santa, reindeer sledges, little elves, musical trees, Christmas story books, puzzles, Christmas games, pretty dolls, macho trains and cars-are all peachy Christmas gift ideas for the kiddos that are waiting to be picked !
Christmas lights and lamps are yet some more glowing ideas for Christmas gifts. And these are all the rage during this season too.
The Problem With Christmas
Christmas is a conundrum for most people. Its like a rich, octogenarian uncle. You love him, hes insanely funny and provocative, he gives you really nice presents and just might leave you an Italian villa in his will. But he needs to be taken to the bathroom regularly, requires a lot of attention, is opinionated and makes you absolutely crazy when you have to take him to a fancy cocktail party because you never know when hell pass gas or say something really outrageous, both of which he does loudly.
On the one hand, we all have some gleeful anticipation of the season – the silly and heart-warming movies and TV specials, the decorations, kids singing carols at the mall and all those paid days off. And on the other hand, many of us dread the pressure and pace of Christmas cards, shopping, the crowds, and ultimately (gulp) the obligatory family gatherings.
This social psychosis complicates the season enough, but when you add in the rhetoric from the religious community The War on Christmas, Jesus is the Reason for the Season, etc. you introduce even deeper layers of self-condemnation and anxiety. What to do, what to do?
A good starting point is to unravel the multi-layered hairball of traditions and religious implications that have come to define Christmas. Like most of our modern heritage, theres more to this kaleidoscopic than meets the eye. Once we can see what all is going on, then maybe we can bring some sanity and fun to the celebration of it.
The History of Christmas. Actually, were talking about the History of the Winter Solstice celebrations, which date back over 4000 years. Most of our Christmas traditions were originally rituals celebrated centuries before Christ was born. The giving of gifts, carnivals, parades, carolers going from house to house, holiday feasts, and church performances can all be traced back to the early Mesopotamians (1500 BC).
Persians, Babylonians, Scandinavians, Greeks, Romans and Egyptians all had elaborate rituals that were celebrated at the Winter Solstice intended to pay tribute to the mythological importance of the sun and to the perennial cycles of nature. But, dont be too quick to dismiss the ancient traditions as being simply pagan rituals. In fact, they were VERY spiritually oriented.
It is true that the peoples that populated what is now the Middle East 3000 years before Christ were polytheistic they had numerous gods. But they were also VERY religious. A large part of their culture was focused on seeking to learn the will of the gods, and the early Winter Solstice traditions reflected that focus. The Romans decked the halls with holly and candles as a tribute to one of their most powerful gods, Apollo. The Scandinavians built huge bonfires and held feasts that lasted for days as a way to help their sun-god defeat the power of darkness. These bonfires and feasts are the beginnings of our famous Yule log – the 12 days of Yuletide was a lengthy ceremony which heralded the power of their gods over the domain of evil.
These beautiful ceremonies and ancient traditions all sought to do what our modern Christian traditions now do celebrate the dominion of the supernatural forces of the cosmos over the earthly world of man. They sought to honor their gods, and sometimes even assist them, in the ongoing battle over darkness.
So, Who Put The Christ In Christmas In the First Place? Well, now, thats an interesting, and not fully complete, historical detective story. The most popular conclusion by archeologists, biblical scholars and anthropologists, is that the pagan traditions were co-opted by the early Christian Church. In the first three hundred years after the death of Christ, there was no prescribed feast for the occasion of Christs birth. This was partly because no one actually knew when or where Christ was born and partly because the major Christian celebration was the Crucifixion and Resurrection. Some local monasteries and churches had their own birthday celebrations at different times of the year, but it wasnt until the mid-4th Century AD that Christs birth became an official celebration, complete with a specific date.
Why did it happen then? Getting the diverse peoples of the Roman empire to reject their historical religions and raucous merriment in favor of the official religion of Christianity (so decreed in 350 AD) was no easy matter. Grudgingly, but inevitably, the church accepted the perennial revelry of its diverse citizenry (pagan though it was) and wisely decided to include those celebrations for their own agenda. In what many historians consider to be a stroke of public relations genius, in 320 AD, Pope Julius I proclaimed that the pagan celebration of the December 25th Festival of the Sun (Natalis Invicti, i.e. The Nativity ) would henceforth also celebrate the Birth of Christ – ta da! Enter the Official Birth Day of Christ.
According to the Catholic Encyclopedia The Advent, by 402 AD the Feast of the Birth of Christ (the new interpretation of The Nativity) was practiced through out the Holy Roman Empire. The Nativity scene itself (you know, the livestock, the stable, etc.) didnt emerge for another 800 years. In 1223, St Francis of Assisi originated the manger scene based on his interpretation of some little-known ecclesiastical customs. Somewhere around this time, the donkey that Mary rode to Bethlehem emerged as a character in the Nativity.
But, from its inception, there was dissension within the Church about Christmas celebrations. For centuries, many conservative church leaders condemned the revelry and aggressively criticized the endorsement of the sun-worshippers traditions. When the Orthodox pilgrims migrated to the Americas in 1620, Christmas revelry and symbolism were outlawed. Back in England in 1645, Oliver Cromwell and his Puritans succeeded in outlawing the heathen traditions of Christmas celebrations throughout England. When Charles II returned to the English throne in 1660, he restored the popular holiday, but the custom had only scattered endorsement throughout the American colonies. After the Revolutionary War, many English customs, including the celebration of Christmas, fell out of favor entirely and didnt begin to re-emerge in the United State until the 1800s.
When Americans did finally begin to embrace Christmas as a family holiday, old customs were unearthed. In the next 100 years, Americans built a Christmas tradition all their own that included pieces of many other customs, including decorating trees, sending holiday cards, gift-giving and the early Christian traditions and stories. In 1836, Alabama became the first state in the US to declare Christmas a legal holiday, but it wasnt until 1907 that Oklahoma finally joined the club and became the last state to do so. Christmas was declared an official US holiday in 1870. The first official use of Christmas decorations to lure in shoppers was at a NYC department store in 1900.
So what does that mean today? Basically, it means that there is no historical truth to any of the familiar observations weve come to embrace, whether were talking about the pagan celebrations or the religious ones. They are all made up. Not much sense in fighting, or fretting, over any of them if you ask me.
No One Has Taken The Christ Out Of Christmas. Hes still there if you want Him to be, but it never has been His private domain. Whats the problem? The Church snaked on the pagans to begin with, and it was a pretty successful strategy. Today, more people around the world practice the Christian traditions than ever before. Isnt that enough? Remember, the Romans tried for about 1,000 years to make Christmas a purely Christian holiday and all they did was divide and antagonize the millions of people for whom it means something different. Dont make the mistake that old Cromwell made. Go ahead and have it your way, its a beautiful tradition. But, let everyone else enjoy it their way.
Yes, Christmas Is Also About the Money. And for those who shake their heads with disgust about the commercialization of it, you guys need a quick reality check. Christmas shopping is the single most significant economic cycle in America. Hundreds of thousands of businesses rely on if for their very existence. From a commercial health point of view, if it didnt already exist, someone would need to invent it. The money that gets spent around Christmas, for everything from twinkley little lights to airline tickets and pretty new cars is the fuel that keeps our economy plugging along all year. Forget the new homes, its the HUNDREDS OF BILLIONS of dollars spent at Christmas that keep America economically strong.
Christmas has a huge positive impact on other aspects of our culture. People are nicer and more tolerant. There have been truces and cease fires called during times of war for the sake of Christmas. More than half the charitable donations collected for ALL organizations in the US roll in during the Christmas season. Yes, I know, some of that has to do with end of year tax breaks, but it also has to do with Salvation Army red kettles, angle trees, and Goodwill donations. Its a time of year when people feel a greater sense of social conscience and charitable organizations benefit from that feeling of good will. Too bad we dont pony up all year through the way we do at Christmas.
Whats wrong with people paying more attention to each other, or with being delighted by the decorations and the music? Lets cover our yards with blow up Santas and mechanical reindeer. Lets turn our living rooms into little magical wonderlands of jolly old elves and candles and angels. Maybe if we spent more time getting in touch with the kid in ourselves we wouldnt have so much interest in polluting the planet and killing people who have different political or religious views than we do. Who cares why we have this expanded consciousness of good will? Whether it comes from a belief in a particular God (or gods) or whether it is simply a willingness to open ourselves up to the most benevolent parts of our nature, what difference does it make? ITS ALL MADE UP! Anything that elevates mans humanity to man is a GOOD thing, no matter where it comes from!
Now, about that family stuff. I know it can be a pain in the ass. But, you know what? At some core level, we all long for a connection to our roots and our past. Is it so much to ask of ourselves to set aside our electro-media-stimulus-fast paced-gotta-pay-the-rent-on-the-beach-condo-somebody-please-entertain-me addiction to the very things that destroy the peace and harmony in our lives? Cmon, youve got 364 other days that you can obsess over getting ahead and being good enough and worrying about every little ounce you put on this year. You can afford to spend a fraction of your oh-so-important agenda getting in touch with your bloodline. Even if theyre all intolerable ass-holes, so what? Practice forgiveness and acceptance.
If you dont want to send Christmas cards, dont. The mailman will love you. The way I see it, anyone who keeps a check-list of who sent Christmas cards and then makes some kind of judgment about it needs to get a real life. And as for all that pressure to buy gifts GET OVER IT! It isnt going to kill you to get off your butt and think about other peoples delight. And speaking of butts, it isnt going to kill you to stop kissing those of people you dont really want to buy gifts for but do. Buy gifts for people you want to buy them for and be as generous as you want to be. If you dont want to buy a gift, dont. Sometimes it may be appropriate to make some type of gesture, but there are LOTS of things you can do other than buy the latest electronic gadget or such. Flowers, plants, candy or fruit work great. And you can always make a donation to YOUR favorite charity in the other persons name. The No. 1 Rule is to have fun with your gift buying and put some personal thought into it. The No. 2 Rule is NO SUFFERING ALLOWED! (By the way, if you happen to think that books make a nice Christmas gift, then Ive got a great one for you. Check out my book at “Your MEGAgiNormous Rules .)
The Time Complaint. Not enough time, too much to do, blah, blah, blah. Look here, if you dont have enough time to have fun at Christmas youre just confused about whats important. Im pretty sure that when youre lying on your deathbed one of the things you WONT be saying is Gee, I wish Id spent more time at the office and less time enjoying Christmas. There are 525,600 minutes in a year, only about 1500 of which get devoted to really enjoying Christmas. What, are you crazy? Surely you can fit your hectic life into the other 524,000 minutes.
Christmas is too big to be confined to any single ideology. It belongs to all people and to all of history. It has endured for thousands of years because it brings people together and celebrates hope and renewal. Its an excellent time of year that gives us permission to transcend our normal petty natures. We get to be kind and gentle, and care about others and do little things that let those others know we care. We get to have fun, darn it! What, your life is so full of fun you cant stand anymore?
Stop fretting over what you perceive is wrong with it. Its just stupid to turn it into a conflict or some type of litmus test that only serves to divide us. Take what you like from it and leave the rest. And let others enjoy it in their own way. Theres something for everyone in Christmas. It truly is the most wonderful time of the year, it we just allow it to be. Have a holly jolly one!
The Poor at Christmas – The Philippines Experience
For most of us brought up in Western societies, Christmas long ago became a commercial extravaganza. Over recent decades the commercial impetus has intensified, with Christmas coming to the shops earlier and earlier, until now it arrives in full frontal mode, as soon as the kids go back to school after the summer holidays.
Each decade that has passed since the 1950’s has seen bigger, brighter and more extravagant Christmas decorations, both indoors and outdoors. For those who love Christmas lights and other decor, that’s great, but there’s another side to the story. Decorating the home has become an obligation, which for the very poor can be something of a problem, as neighbours and friends try to outdo each other.
Perhaps the greater problem, though, can be with Christmas gifts. Children have developed greater and greater expectations over the years, and this brings with it pressures on adults, and parents in particular, to pile as many gifts as possible under the Christmas tree, whether they can afford it or not. Often, poorer families cannot afford it, and the financial pressures, fed by the social pressures, mount as Christmas Day nears. All these pressures are fueled, of course, by intense advertising from September through to December 25. It is little wonder that the days after Christmas are a peak time for family break ups.
Due to the fact that most Western children expect some wonderful Christmas gifts, it is no surprise to many when they get them. Sadly, many will never learn to fully appreciate the acts of giving and receiving gifts. Once a gift becomes a routine obligation, it is no longer a gift, but a token. True generosity cannot be found in such tokens.
Hopefully, many poor and rich families will have a meaningful and enjoyable Christmas in the UK, where I come from, and in the US. Poor families in particular will find the financial pressures strongest, but it may well be that the poorer children will be the more appreciative.
Maybe some rich families will experience the fate of a birthday gift to a teenage friend of my son in England. On receiving a top of the range hi-fi system, probably worth about $3000, as a gift, he trashed it a week later, simply because he was bored. I suspect it is less likely that a teenager from a poor family would do the same.
Christmas in the Philippines
Since 2000, all my Christmases have been spent here in the Philippines. After moving here, I soon found what true poverty was, and that, despite all the moans, there is no real poverty in the UK. The “poor” of the UK and US would pass as rich in the Philippines.
My life has been enriched in many ways through spending 6 years here, and getting to understand Filipinos and their way of life. I have been touched by the generosity of the very poor, having visited many ordinary, spartan homes of the desperately poor. For example, one morning I paid a visit to the mother of a friend. She had no food in the home, and I knew the family were often short of food and went hungry. Unbeknown to me, though, a neighbour was preparing what little food her family had to ensure that I had lunch, despite the fact that they knew I could go and buy what I wanted to eat any time, and from anywhere. I knew, too, that the family whose food I ate for lunch, was even poorer than that of my friend. That family would be going hungry that evening, which made me appreciate the hospitality so much I can never forget it.
When it comes to the approach to Christmas, Filipinos lap it all up. They have a festive fun loving spirit anyway, so Christmas is just another excuse. As in the UK, the start of September starts the countdown to Christmas Day, in the stores and on TV. On September 1 here I was woken at 5am by some distant, but rather loud, music. Once I had come to my senses, I realised it was Christmas music. I assumed then it was an individual with a new CD, and that it would be a one off. However, I was wrong. It is now mid November as I write this, and that music (yes, exactly the same) is played every day. Now, I realise it is not an individual at all, but coming from a nearby military base. Each morning, a bugle blasts out the First Post, and then the Christmas music is switched on.
Despite the proliferation of Christmas advertising, and music, Filipinos do not seem to succumb to any pressure to spend too much money over Christmas. There is no expectation of any gift, and I am sure many children never get an Xmas gift in there lives. Yet, people make the most of Christmas in their own way, and it is an important family time. The Christianity of the Philippines is probably far stronger than any Western country, so the religious significance of Christmas is still paramount.
The combination of Filipino generosity, and lack of expectation of a Christmas gift, led me to write a Christmas story last year. I have learnt much about generosity and kindliness since I came here, and for that I have the Filipino nature to thank. In a way, the story was a way of encapsulating what I had learnt, and to admit that Western adults can learn an awful lot, even from a Filipino child. The story, aimed at adults and older children, tells of a 7 year old girl, living in a nipa hut on the edge of the Palawan rain forest, who has never had a Christmas gift before; never expected one, and never complained. When she finally does receive a gift, one that she knows with certainty came from Santa Claus, she is faced with what most Western children would find as a terrible dilemma. The action she took expresses the true spirit of Christmas and true generosity, in typical Filipino fashion.
One thing Filipinos do splash out their sparse cash on is Christmas decorations, especially Christmas lights. It seems even the poorest of homes will try to spread a bit of Christmas cheer with lights from November onwards, and very nice they look too. Puerto Princesa, where we live, is already preparing for its Christmas display and events this year. We cannot wait to see what will be added to the wonderful displays of last December. Poor or not, gifts or not, Christmas has its own tropical magic in the Philippines.
Memorable Christmas Pictures With A Digital Camera
Christmas is a time for strong sentiments, gatherings of family and friends, good food and nice traditions. Learn to make the best out of this memorable time in pictures for old and young.
Rather simple point-and-shoot cameras have a great potential for family pictures during Christmas and they can also produce most other kinds of pictures during this important annual event. Small digital cameras aren’t that intrusive as big professional cameras.
Here, I offer some basic photo tips and some more advanced photo tricks. If you follow just a few of them you will probably make much more memorable Christmas pictures during the Christmas days – and may be even before Christmas day.
Be prepared for photography
Keep your digital camera in reach during all Christmas. Make sure your battery is fully recharged and your memory card has plenty of space for new pictures. Have your battery re-charger available, too, as you will take many photos with flash.
Share the responsibility for taking pictures
For some Christmas events you might be quite busy serving the guest or helping older family members or being the one who should talk with everybody. Then just give your camera to another person and ask for him or her to take a lot of pictures during the event. Young people will often be very good at picture taking, not least because the availability of camera phones has facilitated that habit to even very young people.
Go close when taking pictures
Go as close as you can what ever you are shooting family members or Christmas things and symbols. Most digital cameras include more in the photo than what is displayed when you frame it, unless you only use the digital display screen. You can always quickly check the result and take a new picture if needed.
Don’t be afraid of arranged picture taking
Many situations around the Christmas tree are quite messy. Don’t worry of arranging a fine scene like grandfather in the big chair with the youngest family member on the lab with a big Christmas present in the small hands.
Arrange an all family members group photo
To have a picture taken if all family members get together for Christmas is an opportunity you shouldn’t miss. If possible think beforehand of a functional locality – indoor or outdoor with enough room for all, including the space for the photographer. Use a tripod to have your self included. Take at least three frames.
Take several shots of the most memorable situations
When you have a very nice situation don’t spare your shots but take at least 3 alternatives. One picture might turn out much better than the others, and the first shot isn’t the best shot very often.
Take pictures without the flash turned on
As Christmas in the northern hemisphere is happening in the dark wintertime many pictures will be taken with the flash on. That is fine for many occasions but the strong flashlight will often remove the nice special Christmas atmosphere. Learn how to manually turn the flash on and off before any important Christmas gathering. Increase the sensitivity to say 400 ASA for natural light photography during Christmas events.
Take candlelight pictures
Candlelight pictures are a rewarding approach to Christmas photography as they generate a special atmosphere of old time and traditions. Include one or two faces in the frame together with the candle. You have to switch off the flash of the camera and improve the sensitivity. If possible support your elbows on a table or the like to avoid camera shake. Still remember to take some alternative shots. Many Christmas symbols are also fine in candlelight.
Take series of Christmas pictures
A number of Christmas pictures showing a process or an event from the phase of preparation, through the main activities until the final stage of saying goodbye or cleaning up can be very interesting later. This can be a fine task for a younger family member to take care of and it is so nice with digital cameras that we don’t have to worry of the cost of pictures that become failures. Such a series of Christmas pictures is excellent for a digital slide show later.
Take special interest in the oldest family members
As time goes by it often turns up that the last pictures of an old family member that passed away was taken at Christmas time. Without exaggerating keep that in mind and make sure you get really nice portraits of the oldest family members in good mood – every Christmas.
Make the best of the newborn and babies
Normally there will be taken a lot of photos of babies and the smallest children and that is a good tradition. Just pay a little attention to how to link the pictures of the children to symbols of Christmas and activities of other family members or friends during the Christmas event.
Preparing for Christmas – also a photo option For children the waiting time to Christmas might be felt like infinity. For us grownups the time might slip away because of all the preparation for Christmas combined with our other duties. Shopping in the decorated streets, preparing presents and cooking food etc. are all fine options for your Christmas photography.
Throw away the bad pictures quickly
During Christmas or just after go through the Christmas pictures and weed all the bad ones out. When you have taken three alternative frames of the same situation, only keep the best one for the future. Be tuff, when editing your Christmas collection of pictures – that will reward you in the long run. Google’s Picasa picture organizer is a fine help and it is free at picasa.google.com
Share your Christmas pictures
It is easy to share your Christmas pictures with family members and friends. At OnlinePhotoSharing.net you will find many options.
Smart Buying for Christmas Lights
Christmas Lights are very popular during the holiday season because it gives life to our Christmas decorations. They come in different styles and prices. So here are some tips in buying the right Christmas lights for your home at a reasonable price.
Compute the area where the Christmas lights will be used.
You have to measure the exact length of the area where you will place the lights then add a few inches depending on where your power outlet is located. So if you are planning to hang them outside your home, determine the length of your home as well as the distance to the power outlet.
However, if you plan to place the Christmas lights on your Christmas tree, you can use a tape measure to determine the exact length of the Christmas lights that you will need to buy.
Find out how many strands of Christmas lights you need.
This will depend on your measurements of the area needed to be covered with Christmas lights and length of strands of Christmas lights you will purchase. For example, your measurement is 50 feet and each strand of Christmas lights measures 10 feet, then you will need 5 strands of Christmas lights.
It is also advisable to use shorter strands of Christmas lights so that you can easily replace them if one strand gets damaged.
Determine the type of Christmas Lights you need.
To easily determine the type of Christmas lights, you need to know your purpose of your Christmas light. Will you be hanging them outside your home? Are you planning to have indoor Christmas lights together with your Christmas tree?
Once you know your purpose then check out the features of Christmas lights which include bulbs, strand type and plug style.
Bulbs: The bulbs can be in different sizes, shapes and color. You need to determine your Christmas holiday motif so that you can select Christmas lights that match your other decorations. Then, decide on the number of bulbs you prefer because Christmas lights vary in the number of bulbs per strand. Look in the package and you will see the number of bulbs included in the Christmas lights.
You also have to check the wattage of each bulb because the illumination of your decoration will depend on the wattage and number of bulbs you will use. Moreover, bulbs have different lightning effect. Some bulbs can have a steady glow while others blink in different ways. So choose the Christmas lights with the bulb that you will love.
Strand type: The strand of Christmas lights can either have serial or parallel wiring. In a serial wiring, all bulb will not light up if one of them is broken. Thus, it is best to have a Christmas lights that has parallel wiring so that even if one of the bulb is damaged, all other bulbs will still illuminate.
Plug style: Select an end to end style of plug if you are planning to use several strands of Christmas lights. This will allow you to easily connect all strands of lights together. But if your decorations will only require one strand of Christmas lights, then the plug style may not be that important.
Do a comparison shopping
It is always advisable to do comparison shopping to get the best deal for your favorite Christmas lights. Visit the shopping stores that sell Christmas lights in your area. You can also watch out for sales on these stores. Another way is doing an online shopping.
This would be convenient for you if you do not have enough time to visit the stores in your area. Remember to jot down the prices of each preferred Christmas lights so you can compare them once you have visited all the stores.
You can be a smart buyer for Christmas lights by simply following these tips. Thus, you can start lighting up your home using your favorite Christmas lights during holiday season.








5 Most Popular Styles of Christmas Ornaments
Traditionally Christmas ornaments were bulbs of all the same color which were placed randomly throughout your Christmas tree. Over the past few decades, Christmas ornaments have developed into elaborate pieces of art which are delicately planned out and placed throughout the Christmas tree. Currently there are many types of Christmas ornaments to choose from and the creativity and uniqueness of your Christmas tree will highly depend on the types of ornaments you choose.
Below you will find the 5 most popular styles of ornaments for your Christmas tree:
There is an unlimited selection of Christmas tree ornaments available on the market and the choices you make will highly affect the overall appearance of your Christmas tree. Each individual family will have their own preference and no two Christmas trees will ever look the same. That’s a good thing because, like people, if they all looked the same they would not be as fascinating to look at.